But a very vague

It didn't look very much like us at all, but we could sort of see the resemblance in a vague kind of way, right?

看起来几乎不怎么像我们,但我们可以或多或少的,找到些和我们相似的地方

Aware of such a relative, but never interfered with his life, the impression is very vague.

知道有这么个亲戚，却从来没有过问他的生活，印象非常模糊。

This is a very vague way of explanation. Perhaps in our eyes their marriages at least are calm and can move peacefully on, but those involved feel nearly suffocated and desire to escape from it.

这是一种非常暧昧的说法，也许，在我们看来，他们的婚姻至少是风平浪静的，是可以心平气和过下去的，但当事人却觉得快窒息了，要逃离出来。